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Grief in the Time of Genocide
To attempt to define the heaviest of human emotions with such a miniscule and modest word is futile, at best. The English language uses the word “grief” …
Yes, I Was Born a "Negro"
Our family recently celebrated my 2nd oldest grandson's 5th birthday. As we enjoyed pizza and conversation, the topic turned to birth certificates. I shared, "You know, my birth…
Reviewing Inside Out 2: Anxiety Steals the Show
Firstly, we have to get to know our anxiety. What does your anxiety look like? Is she an orange haired cartoon, or is she a hawk? Or an energizer bunny? Is she silly looking, or …
A Collective-care Guide for Activists and Organizers
Organizing and engaging in protests and actions can be incredibly empowering, connecting and moving. And, It can also be exhausting, scary, isolating, and at times, even traumatizing. …
The Perplexing Paradox of Equity Efforts: Fearless Fund vs. Hello Alice
As someone who is deeply passionate about supporting underrepresented entrepreneurs, I was quite surprised to see the contrasting court decisions for Fearless Fund and…
Pride and #EQUALITY
If you’ve come out later in life, it can feel easy to see changes that have affected where or how queer youth can be “out” compared to how it might have been…
It’s April and I forgot about my New Years goals? Now what?
While making New Year's resolutions isn’t really the vibe anymore, a lot of people still use the changing of the calendar to identify things they want to do or succeed in throughout the year…
I'm triggered, what do I do?
You’re watching a movie. There is a scene that catches you off guard a little. You look over to your friends who are watching it with you, they don’t seem as phased…
Grounding Techniques for Anxiety - Finding Ways to Feel OK
We all get anxious from time to time. Sometimes we know ways to calm down, other times it feels like trying to tell yourself to “calm down!” makes the issue…
You Want Me to Color? The “New” Art Therapy Online
By this point in the post-mid-maybe-not-quite-done pandemic world, those of us who have been practicing or engaging in teletherapy probably feel like old pros. We know the…
It's OK to get SAD! Seasonal Affective Disorder Tips & Tricks
Spending the days either really tired or really caffeinated is a common occurrence for many of us in the Pacific Northwest, I’m realizing. It’s a sleepy time of year. There are also many parts of the U.S. and…
Reflections on Recovery Month
If there’s anything to take from Recovery Month, it’s the reminder that substance use isn’t an isolated problem in our world, as much as some might want it to be…
Making DEI Data Pretty, and Making Food Even Prettier: An Interview
I sat down with Anisha Upponi, M.A., Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion Insights & Analytics Manager at Experian, and also one of my favorite people of all time, to pick her brain on why racial equity…
The Journey to Becoming an Online Therapist
When I decided to become a therapist, I never dreamed that I would see the majority of my clients through telehealth in the future. The journey to get here wasn’t quite what I imagined…
What to talk about (when you don’t know what to talk about) in therapy
You’re logging off your last work call of the day before your therapy appointment. Your meeting ran late so you are hopping straight into a Zoom with your therapist after talking.…
Is DEI the New Affirmative Action?
In the year before my birth, an executive order was signed by President Kennedy that required federally funded projects take “affirmative action” regarding racial discrimination…
The Pros and Cons of Teletherapy for Mental Health
The nature of mental health therapy continues to evolve especially during the COVID-19 pandemic. Due to the magnitude of the pandemic and uncertainties …
Unlearning Fatphobia in Mental Health Care: Tips and Reflective Questions for Becoming a More Fat-Affirming Therapist
One of the most important professional growth practices a therapist can commit themselves to is unlearning. Unlearning, or the process of unraveling …
How the Roe V. Wade Supreme Court Decision Could Impact the BIPOC Community
So, how do we break this down to understand that this is not only an issue that hits home for every person with a uterus, but an even more difficult issue for people of color?…
To My Girls with Love, A Mother's Oath
I had spent some time crafting my thoughts and experiences about being a working mom, sharing funny moments that other parents would read, relate and have a moment…